This is the 6th principle on which this Loving Relationship Circle is based.
Relationships offer me endless opportunities to become aware of my blocks to Love, when I am willing. If I experience anything else than being calm and neutral when being with or thinking of someone, it is my blocks to Love that are showing up.
By giving my relationships the purpose of becoming aware of my blocks, and accepting that any meeting or relationship is actually a precious gift in this context, my social life is given a new meaning.
This way I notice how the bus driver brings up my irritation when driving carelessly, an alcoholic my disgust by looking dirty and smelling from urine and child abusers my righteous indignation. I also notice that my children mostly bring up my guilt and my intimate relationship nearly all of my blocks…. and so on.
Some people seem to trigger our blocks more than others. We most often consciously try to avoid or change these people, judging them for causing our discomfort. They actually are our best pointers to our blocks to Love.
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